Saturday, November 24, 2012

Missy Frye Author Interview!

Hi all!
Help me welcome Missy Frye to my blog today:
She was great to work with and a great person. She's very accommodating and cares about others. Here's her interview with me:

Tell me a bit about yourself:
This question is always difficult for me. I’m not sure what people would want to know. I’ve been writing since my teenage years, but didn’t take it seriously until my mid-thirties. I once had a column in a newspaper supplement in which I wrote reviews of independent, foreign and less publicized films. Let’s see, what else? I’m a professional Aunt; an introvert; and Eeyore fan.

What type of genre do you write?
I dabble in different genres. I’m currently working on a Women’s Fiction novel, which I’ve recently learned is lumped into the general fiction section of bookstores.

What genre to you personally read?
Again, different genres. I prefer fantasy and historical but my keeper shelf holds everything from biographies to young adult to literary fiction. 

Tell me about your latest?
My latest published work is a short story called Miltonia Butterflies.

 It’s about a  young girl who discovers a beautiful flower in an amazing garden. She wants to share it with her mother but has to jump through a few hoops to do so. It can be found at Smashwords: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/MissyFrye along with my other short stories.

Where is your book available?
All of my short stories were published through Smashwords and can be downloaded in multiple e-reader formats from there. https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/MissyFrye

Where you live and one thing you love about it
I live in Northwest Arkansas. It’s hard to choose just one thing I love about it. I guess I’ll go with I love it because it’s where my roots are.

What sparked your passion for books and the art of a good story?
I’ve always loved books and was lucky that my parents encouraged my reading. As a child, I subscribed to one of those book clubs that sent several children’s books on a regular basis. I so wish I had all of those books; they were handed down to my cousins.

I learned to appreciate the art of a good story in high school English. At that time, it mystified me. I was in my thirties before I really understood story structure. I still struggle with it at times. LOL

Is there a particular book that changed or affected your life in a big way?
The Case for Christ by Lee Strobel

What was the seed of inspiration for your latest book?
The death of my father. I sort of went of the deep end after his death in 2011 and needed help to deal with my grief. In the process, I found myself going back to the age of fourteen when two really good friends and the older brother of a classmate were all killed in accidents within months of each other. I hadn’t really grieved for them properly. Once I got my head on straight, I wondered what life would be like had they lived. From there, I began to imagine all the ways those of us left behind could deal or not deal with losing them. I went to extremes to create a compelling story. I’m working on the second draft now.

Is there a message in your book that you want readers to grasp?
I’ve never really write with a message in mind. But my novel certainly is a warning to grieve properly.

What challenges have you faced in your writing career?
I deal with chronic migraines and pain stops me in my tracks more often than not, to call that a challenge is an understatement. I get in my own way a lot of the time. Self-doubt is a near constant companion.

What has been your best moment as a writer?
Three moments popped into my head when I read this question.
1. My cousin inadvertently compared my writing style to Jane Austen
2. My aunt was completely surprised by the ending of my short story Miltonia Butterflies and took the time to tell me so
3. I got a five star review of Miltonia Butterflies from a self-proclaimed horror nut

Who is your author idol?
I don’t have one. There are authors that I love and will read every book they publish, but I try not to put people on pedestals because they so often fall. One of my mom’s favorite authors was sued for plagarism. A favorite of mine tried to scam her fans by selling self-published books and not delivering the goods until threatened. I won’t read either author’s books now even though I know they both are very talented.  I appreciate talent, but integrity wins my loyalty.

Do you see yourself in any of your characters?
I get a glimpse of myself in all of them. Even the baddies. I’m character driven which means I get to know them very well. To do so I have to empathize with them on some level. You can learn a lot about yourself while creating a character.

Do you feel like your dream has come true or is there much more to do?
There is way more to do. I’m just beginning.

What is your personal cure for procrastination?
There’s a cure?
When I procrastinate it is usually because I’m stuck and need a diversion that will allow me to mull things over. Admittedly, there are times when I’m procrastinating because I don’t want to write, or don’t feel like writing. Those times usually pass quickly.

What does your workspace look like?
It’s cramped and messy. I clean it regularly, but it always returns to a disaster, quite quickly, in fact. We plan to move in the next few months and I dream of creating a workspace where I can stretch out. Hopefully, I’ll keep it tidy, but I won’t hold my breath.

Have you ever had a day when you just wanted to quit?
I’ve had many of those days. No matter what people tell you, writing well is hard. There are times when I read something I’ve written and find it to be terrible. My thoughts run from what were you thinking to you should give it up and you have no talent. I enjoy the process though and that’s what keeps me typing away.

What do you do when you’re not writing?
Read. Genealogy research. Watch movies. Gardening. Watch television. Spend time with family and friends. I’ve learned to prioritize my writing and some of the things I like doing for fun and relaxation get overlooked sometimes. It’s important to take time away from writing too. It’s easy to burn out if you don’t divert yourself regularly.

What are the most important attributes to remaining sane as a writer?
Keep Calm and Write. Seriously. If you over analyze what you put on the page you can drive yourself crazy. I recently went on a binge of questioning the basics of writing while editing my WIP. I even Googled how to use pronouns. When you feel yourself freaking out, take a break.

What was the greatest thing you learned at school?
I have a talent for writing and there’s a community in which I fit. In high school, I was that girl who hung out with all the cliques from popular to nerds, but never felt as if I belonged. I skated through life under the assumption something was wrong with me. In college people saw something in me and took the time to show me that image. Scholastically I learned many things, but none of it impacted as much as learning about myself.

Did you have a moment when you realised you were meant to be a writer?
It was really a combination of moments really. I decided to take college courses to get a degree in web design. During English Comp I our first assignment was to write a letter to someone and hand it in at the end of class. At the next class, the instructor read mine aloud because she liked my creativity. I wrote from the perspective of a man travelling to a new planet and sharing his discoveries with a family member on earth. Other teachers/professors encouraged my writing. Within a year I had changed my major to English with an emphasis on creative writing.

What advice would you give to aspiring authors?
Keep writing.

After this book, what is next?
I’m outlining a sequel to my short story Fool’s Journey and planning a novel based on a character I created during one of my college creative writing classes.

See, what a great interview. She can be reached at the below locations. Stop by and leave her a comment so she knows you've been there. Oh, and go pick up a copy of her newest book!

Your website?
www.melissamfrye.com

Your blog?
Missy Writes: www.melissamfrye.com/missywrites
Invincible Love of Reading: www.melissamfrye.com/invincibleloveofreading

Other websites?
Linkedin: http://www.linkedin.com/in/missyfrye
Facebook Fan Page: http://www.facebook.com/MissyFryeAuthor
Amazon: www.amazon.com/author/missyfrye
Goodreads: http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/5787369.Missy_Frye
Pinterest: http://pinterest.com/mmfrye/
Twitter: @MissyFrye

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